Illustrator
Creating special effects
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Drop shadows, glows, and feathering
Feather the edges of an object
Select the object or group (or target a layer in the Layers panel).
Choose Effect > Stylize > Feather.
Set the distance over which the object fades from opaque to transparent, and click OK.
Original object selected (left) and using feather effect (right)
About effects and filters
Targeting items for appearance attributes
About raster effects
Selecting objects
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